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May 30
妈妈们,请去看看这个YOUTUBE
潮汕这种性别歧视在某种程度上与伊斯兰相似,这么多社会学/文化/人口/女性研究为什么没有相应的田野作业?
很悲凉!
P.S 对不起豆妈,我错误删掉了你的留言,请原谅
另外,我们要来NY啦,准备喝咖啡啊!!!
另一个浑身发冷的贴:http://www.tianya.cn/publicforum/Content/free/1/908328.shtml
May 29
过去的这个周末--就是闷.
雨铺天盖地,温度降到5度,家里赶紧开暖气,和和又穿上大厚外套
这样的天如果只有大人,可以赖在床上看书看碟看报纸看新闻,听听音乐,乱吃点东西,不要太舒服,可小同志是不行的,那么糟糕的天气还是要出门
游泳泡水/逛无聊店买无用东西/吹饱冷风喂羊吃草/大雨中赶去吃早茶,可惜和爸和和二人吃不惯
想不明白天气为什么这么善变
现在什么杂志/报纸都在苦口婆心教育大家要学会ECO-LIFE
比如,不要用烘干机,可以降低30%的一氧化碳排出
可是,这样湿淋淋的天,衣服不干是很痛苦的,而且英国人又特别忌讳让衣服见太阳
至今还记得从前在武大读书,梅雨天走廊里的衣服晾半月也干不了,地上返潮泥乎乎的,那样的季节是每年最难受的
是的,我们知道少用纸,信封用两遍,用E-CLOTH擦这那擦那,少用塑料袋,多穿有机COTTON,出门尽量走路或者用公共交通,少坐飞机多坐火车,随手关灯关水......
可是满街2.0以上的4X4,中央空调的办公室,过度包装的食物......
想起上次去和和大姑家与七大舅八大姨闲聊,几个问题蛮有趣,
Q1: 抱怨去美国入关被问时间长了也要预约签证,把这些老英国人气坏了,和妈于是开讲中国人签证的故事,自然要讲自己终生不忘的荷兰签证经历,他们听了,真觉得新鲜.
Q2: 中国男女比例越来越失调,为什么会重男轻女? 那么多男的怎么办? 和妈讲别担心,男的多了就自然GAY多了,反正西方老GAY多了是,中国政府不承认,可以上网找西方老GAY,一样移民,不然西方老GAY多晚景凄凉啊,而且以后义和团就不能只骂外嫁了,小年青男生们也一样啊,呵呵.
Q3: 你哥的儿子成绩那么好,比赛拿金奖,他快乐吗? 他是正常小孩吗?没有自闭症吗? 和妈嘎嘎大笑,想自己小侄儿那天真可爱,因为学习好,被会疑问成--只有自闭症小孩才数学特别好.和爸也添油加醋,说南京啊八百万人口,小孩可以考前十,多厉害啊,结果和爸家人现在都不敢夸自己孩子学习好,都会先来一句: 怎么好也没你家侄儿好,以后一定要让我们见见他啊.
Q4: 和和大姑父是就职于ESSO的石化专家,在弄厦门的PX项目,每天都要远程会议,和妈略闻厦门人的民间抵制,就问污染的程度,矜持的苏格兰人反问,没有污染这么赚钱的东西为什么这里不敢要? 和妈说你知道厦门是个多美的城市吗? 他说下属出差回来都说美丽,可是,怎么阻止,什么叫代价,这就是代价.
May 26 到目前为止,和和是个皮实的孩子,用英国人的话讲就是solid,当然,这词比较大.
为她吃饭,和妈操心不算很多,因为她的胃口一向不错,当然,她不接受重复的食物,所以,基本每天要换换
1,早饭
A. 麦片+牛奶+蓝莓/葡萄
B. 煮鸡蛋+苹果/香焦
C. 面包+花生酱/果酱/苹果泥
D. 偶尔为之会吃一次肉泥粥+小阳花罗卜
中间点心: 葡萄干,酸奶,生姜人,切好的水果组合,杏干
2. 午饭
A. 三文鱼+面+青豆玉米
B. 香肠+土豆/面+黄豆
C. 虾仁+小米+素菜
配水果+酸奶
3.晚饭
因为中午和和通常吃得很多,晚饭相对就不强调谷类的摄入量,基本就是主菜,然后她自己弄点面包
A. 鸡胸肉打芡后与小红罗卜同煮,汤汤水水,和和的最爱,可以吃得一干二净,这每周要吃三次,有时换成腰梅肉(PORK FILLET)
B. 土豆胡罗卜红薯蒸,外加几个家做嫩肉圆
C. 小米+三文鱼/带子,里面混杂菜松子瓜子
D. 西红柿面+黄瓜/西兰花
E. 西红柿蒸毛豆+小块鸡肉
F. 白灼对虾加豆腐,滴点意大利醋,和和特别喜欢
总体来说,和和吃得比较简单,和妈能保证的是原料新鲜而且基本都是有机食物,处理方法以煮蒸为主,每顿现做,准备时间不超过20分钟.
May 24
对和爸来说,有太阳的日子最舒服的莫过于在海边躺下
无论春夏秋冬,只要有太阳,他一定要去海边晒肉,这曾经让和妈烦不胜烦
但和和耳濡目染,非常喜欢大海
即使海水依然很凉,即使她冻得小脸发紫,却乐此不疲
每一年都有变化,第一年只知道玩石头追海鸥,第二年知道弄沙追浪,今年就知道捕鱼捞海带摸螃蟹搭沙堡
她的快乐简单透明,她喜欢光脚走在乱石滩上,她会偷偷咬点沙
记得很早以前有首诗,说堆沙堡的孩子看海水一点一点浸没沙堡突然有了人生最早的伤感
快乐有的时候就一定要抓住,童年更是瞬间
看着父女二人,真希望时光可以静止在此刻,我们做父母还算年轻力壮,而和和正是懵懂年纪,世界如五月花般美丽
May 21 尽管和和自幼不好哭,但每天总还是有那么几分钟不如意的时候,掉掉眼泪.
她很想念奶奶爷爷,自己弄个玩具望远镜,东看西看的,嘴里念念有词--看南京看奶奶看公公
每次进家门,她都习惯性得大喊'奶奶公公',搞得和妈抱歉提醒,奶奶公公过几周就来,她也似乎很明白得点头答--奶奶坐飞机有云彩.
和爸却很伤心,他伤心自己宝贝姑娘的失落,他伤心岳母在车上的眼泪,一周过去了,家里少了很多大呼小叫的中国话,却多了寂寞
三代同堂,如果良性循环,很其乐融融.
昨天,20号,和和满30个月了,两岁半的小姑娘了.
走在路上,总被问她多大了,也许她的身高体格语言反应行动动力会让人产生错觉,可是,爹娘知道,我们最亲爱的宝宝--她实际上刚刚两岁半
她不是个害羞的小孩,她喜欢与人相处
她友好温和,她喜欢趴在地上看蚂蚁
她喜欢吃松子喜欢吃豆子喜欢吃西瓜喜欢吃面包
更喜欢喝巧克力--对她来说,这就是爸爸的好,虽然背后爸爸老被妈妈批评
她看书看动画看戏看风景看牛羊,她唱歌跳舞翻跟头在海边堆沙,她会抢出自己刷牙自己喷水浇植物晾衣服
当然,半夜父母都昏睡时,她会自己拽下尿布讨自由
她能用中英荷数数,甚至从动画DORA中自学了西班牙语的1到10, 她会纠正公公的土话
她会突然说ride a kite,因为妈妈讲了不伦不类的play a kite
她这一切都让父母深感幸运,这两年半虽然忙忙碌碌,却幸福
她一直在健康快乐得长着,自信而良善
有时想,也许她的性格有很多和爸的影子,大概这也是为什么和爸视她如宝的缘故;她还没有出生的时候,和妈看节目讲唐氏孩子,问和爸如果怎样他会怎样,和爸回答很坚决,只有是孩子有生命,他都要好好养
父母的爱在一定程度上是缺乏理智的,当小小的人儿在怀中时,没有什么比生命更重要的
聪明漂亮可爱都是其次
生命最需要感谢
诚实得说,和和是个皮实的孩子,小病小痛她都能糊里糊涂过去
这让父母从战战兢兢到略有自信,自信自己可以当父母
明年这时候她就该准备进PRE-SCHOOL了,也就是说她要自己面对这个世界了,父母再爱,也是要放手,她肯定有很多眼泪与不愉快
但是,如果可以,我们祝福她能有一天没有眼泪,或者,眼泪因欢喜而生.
数据:体重:16.3 KG(96%)
身高: 95 CM (91%) (两岁半,从出生起身高体重一直在90%以上,让父母奶奶觉得所有的辛苦都是值得)
May 19
奶奶爷爷上周回国后,和和最明显的变化是非常粘爸爸
她会抓着电话说爸爸我想你
爸爸你快回来
周五,爸爸还在上班,和和要去看他
等在爸爸的诊室外,静静的
看到爸爸的一刹那,她立即扑上去,半天不肯离开
May 13
爷爷奶奶昨晚回国,七月中再来
荷英就历史而言有点表兄弟的意思,和爸家的小村因为靠近海牙,很多外交官住,所以英语被广泛使用,连小村子的自我介绍小册子都是荷文英文.生活具体来说差别不大,目前来说就是一家人都要买健康保险,当然,这不是负担.
村里居民,相比与朴素节俭的荷兰人,是非常夸富的,在村中心喝咖啡,来来往往都是金发碧眼的高人大马,这让和妈陡生出一些压力,小村与小城还是不同,全'白'的小村还是很气势汹汹的:))
小村的绿是一望无际的绿,因为树都上百年,小河里天鹅妈妈正在孵小鹅,和和看了欢喜无比,比较起来,东南英格兰不够绿.
这个夏天就要在英荷之间,直到把两边都安顿好.
May 08 5月5日,荷兰Liberation Day.
早上起来,窗外尽飘荷兰国旗,本来准备去海牙转转,走到村中心,发现游行即将开始,刚站定,绿色童子军就发来小国旗,和和高兴左右开工,和爸笑道宝贝你持荷兰护照自然应该努力摇旗. 游行与英国十一月十一日的Remembrance Day基本相同,二战遗存武器装备正装老兵高头大马鼓乐,小村里还加上大炮坦克,每到这时,和妈有自然的尴尬,毕竟都是别人的荣耀与痛苦,也只有在这个时候,无法荣辱与共,因为自己还是属于那一端的家国历史.
照例一家三口吃鲱鱼,和和怪叫:有刺有刺,和爸苦头婆心教育她这个刺是软的,她还是小口小口得仔细绕过刺.
这一天,荷兰阳光明媚,和和在村子里玩得很累,早早呼呼大睡,于是爹娘奶奶一起看BLACK BOOK
导演是大名鼎鼎的Paul Verhoven, 九十年代初中国大学生进校必修电影<<本能>>就是出自他手
首次揭示二战中荷兰抵抗运动中的灰色部分,应该引起争议,荷兰人却非常平静,和妈认为并非荷兰人没有所谓的爱国主义,而是荷兰人对于基本人性中黑暗的接受与面对.
片子拍得奇艳而哀恸,言情讲来是所谓乱世佳人的命运多舛.
和爸只请和妈看过一部荷文片,就是Paul Verhoven的1977年作品' SOLDIER OF ORANGE',没有英文字幕,寒冷的冬夜里他给太太当同翻,还要介绍背景,比如,LEIDEN学生的贵族习气,特别是右派学生组织,而且还指点片中出现的场景是哪里哪里.
迄今为止,反映荷兰抵抗运动的作品有三:Black Book(2006), Soldier of Orange (1977),The Assult /Aanslag De(1986), 特别是The Assult是1987年奥斯卡/金球奖最佳外语片奖,由匿名小说改编却比小说更凌厉凄凉,而三部电影的改编者都是另外一位神奇的荷兰人Gerard Soeteman.
很长一段时间,官方语言中的荷兰抵抗力量都是正面的,却忘记荷兰当时的亲纳粹政府,同样,法国人在反维希政府时也决口不提戴高乐的一些不光彩作为. 但是历史在黑白之后更多的是灰暗,而灰暗则难以被清楚判断.
1944年冬天可能是一代荷兰人记忆中最困苦的,比如和和奶奶,那时她住在海牙,食物凭票供应,严重缺粮,只有土豆稀汤,而和和爷爷则在北部的德国人的CAMP中终日劳作,同样,那也是<<安妮日记>>中安妮生命中的最后冬天.
同样,五年前政治家Pim Fortuyn遇刺身亡,应该讲,他是一位有魅力的政治家,是英俊的同志,更是一位有见地的教授,他其实道出了当时很多荷兰人在左派政府下的真实态度,和妈很惊讶荷兰人对他的怀念,54%认为他从前的理念对荷兰有益.和妈对于荷兰的了解基本来自于和爸,而和爸对于荷兰的概念在某种程度上止于海牙与LEIDEN,还有那么一点点北部,他的亲朋也集中在西部这一小块地区,虽然他们童年记忆中有很好的印尼移民们,成年后却对移民态度保守.
和妈以相对旁观的心态看荷兰移民政策,感谢英国政府使得和和外公外婆在申请荷兰的MVV(定居签证)是以欧盟(和妈)的非欧盟家庭成员待遇,这样就可以BYPASS荷兰本身苛刻的条件.荷兰人再政治正确却还是实际利益第一,比如荷兰人找个需要签证的发展中国家太太,对不起,一来太太要先在申请国使领馆考基本荷兰语和生活常识,二来荷兰人自己要有至少一年的全日工作合同,而且税后不能少于1400欧元,也就是说,无业的/打零工的/在学校混老童生的,经济上自身难保的就不要在网上婚介找太太了,找了也带不来,这边亚非拉太太就在咬牙切齿痛恨荷兰的IND,如果语言可以是炸弹,荷兰的IND早就灰飞烟灭了,但从另外一个角度讲,荷兰IND也是在做好事,让那些LOSER/DROPOUT就用本护照便宜机票飞几趟弄个姑娘回来何尝不是罪过?
一海之隔,英国老男人们却大张旗鼓组团去俄罗斯找新娘,然后兴高采烈带回COUNCIL HOUSE过日子,至于日子怎样,就冷暖自知了.
May 02
Wi-fi laptop fears for children
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Computers with wireless internet should not be placed on children's laps, says the head of the government's committee on mobile phone safety research.
Professor Lawrie Challis told the Daily Telegraph children using wi-fi networks should be monitored until research into potential health risks is completed.
He says children should keep a safe distance from the embedded antennas.
The Health Protection Agency has said wi-fi devices are of very low power - much lower than mobile phones.
Prof Challis, retired professor of physics at the University of Nottingham, said: "With a desktop computer, the transmitter will be in the tower.
"This might be perhaps 20cms from your leg and the exposure would then be around one per cent of that from a mobile phone.
"However, if you put a laptop straight on your lap and are using wi-fi, you could be around two centimetres from the transmitter, and receiving comparable exposure to that from a mobile phone."
'Bigger problem'
Prof Challis added that children are much more sensitive than adults to dangers such as pollutants like lead and UV radiation.
"So if there should be a problem with mobiles, then it may be a bigger problem for children.
"Since we advise that children should be discouraged from using mobile phones, we should also discourage children from placing their laptop on their lap when they are using wi-fi.
Meanwhile, teachers have called for an investigation into whether there are any health risks from wireless computer networks in schools.
The Professional Association of Teachers union is writing to the education secretary for a clarification on wi-fi safety.
Many primary and secondary schools use wi-fi networks - but the PAT believes there is insufficient long-term evidence to demonstrate whether such networks are safe.
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| May 01 转两篇新闻,妈妈们看看,是不是你们国家也有类似讨论,我们交流交流
特别有请专家心远在百忙之中能给予一个解释!
1,http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/technology/6583815.stm
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| Scare stories about the dangers of wireless networks lack credibility, argues Bill Thompson
Students at Canada's Lakehead University have to be careful how they connect to the internet because wi-fi is banned on large parts of the campus.
University president Fred Gilbert, whose academic interests include wildlife management, environmental studies and natural resources science, is worried about the health impact of the 2.4Ghz radio waves used by wireless networks
Last year he decided to adopt the precautionary principle and refused to allow wi-fi in those areas that have what he calls "hard wire connectivity" until it is proved to be safe.
Mr Gilbert believes that "microwave radiation in the frequency range of wi-fi has been shown to increase permeability of the blood-brain barrier, cause behavioural changes, alter cognitive functions, activate a stress response, interfere with brain waves, cell growth, cell communication, calcium ion balance, etc., and cause single and double strand DNA breaks".
Unfortunately the science says he is wrong, and his students are suffering as a result.
Smog talk
While the heating effects of high exposures to electromagnetic radiation can be damaging, the power levels of wireless connections are much lower than the microwave ovens and mobile phones which share the frequency range, and treating them in the same way is the worst sort of scaremongering.
Yet Mr Gilbert is not alone.
In 2003 parents sued a primary school in Chicago because it had dared to provide children with easy access to computing resources over a wireless network.
And there are a number of pressure groups, campaigning organisations and ill-informed individuals who believe that wireless networks pose a threat to health and want to see them closed down.
Now it seems they have been joined by the editor of the UK newspaper the Independent on Sunday, which this weekend filled its front page with a call for research into the "electronic smog" that is permeating the nation's schools and damaging growing children's' brains.
An accompanying editorial with the even-handed headline "high-tech horrors" called for an official inquiry, while the article outlining the perceived dangers asked "Is the wi-fi revolution a health time bomb?"
The answer, of course, is "no".
That will not stop the newspaper stoking up a wave of opposition to one of the most liberating technologies to have come out of the hi-tech revolution, limiting children's access to networked computers at schools and even blocking plans to develop municipal wireless networks in our towns and cities.
If the journalists were really concerned about the dangers of radio frequency electromagnetic radiation on the sensitive brains of the young, they should be calling for the closure of TV and radio transmission towers rather than asking us to turn off our wi-fi laptops.
The modulated frequencies that carry Radio 4 and ITV into our homes are just as powerful as the wireless networks, and a lot more pervasive.
And my wireless network is only carrying data when I'm online, while Radio 3 burbles all day long, possibly exciting electrons in my brain and causing headaches.
Then there is the danger from photons of visible light streaming down onto us as we work, since these carry more energy than microwaves and could surely do more damage.
Perhaps we should demand that our children work in the dark.
Test programme
The fuss over wi-fi is the latest manifestation of a general worry about electromagnetic radiation, one whose concerns have ranged over the years from the fields around power transmission lines to the radiation emitted by computer monitors to the microwaves put out by mobile phones.
Campaigners are often supported by those who claim to be so sensitive to electromagnetic radiation that they cannot bear to have a radio turned on in the same room because the fields affect their brains, or those who claim that using a mobile phone gives them headaches.
Unfortunately studies like that of James Rubin from the Institute of Psychiatry indicate that such people are just as likely to get a headache when they believe there is a phone signal present even if it is in fact absent, and other research into electromagnetic sensitivity is equally negative.
There is no evidence that electromagnetic radiation at radio frequencies, where the energy levels are too low to dislodge electrons and affect molecular bonding, can cause health effects except by heating tissues.
While those who want to limit the use of wi-fi argue that they need evidence that is it safe, the problem with trying to prove that something is safe is that you can't.
Karl Popper, the great philosopher of science, helped us to understand that science is about falsification, about setting up hypotheses and theories and proving them wrong, because you can never prove them right.
Any theory can be overturned by new evidence, and any claim that wireless networks are completely safe could be thrown out tomorrow if we find good evidence that it isn't.
We may come up with a hitherto unsuspected mechanism that explains a previously disregarded effect, or the evidence may be statistical and require detailed investigation.
Were that to happen we should take it seriously, but it has not happened and there is no reason to believe it will.
The precautionary principle, of avoiding exposure to unnecessary risk, does not apply here because there is no known mechanism by which wireless networks could cause damage.
We have a sound model of the interaction between electromagnetic radiation and organic matter that gives us little reason to believe that there will be any dangers.
For William Stewart, chairman of the Health Protection Agency and a former chief scientific adviser to the Government, to argue for an investigation on the basis of no real evidence that there is an effect, and in the absence of any plausible physical mechanism, is indefensible.
Cellphones heat the brain and could cause problems. Wi-fi doesn't, and it is safe. My daughter is sitting here as I write, her new wireless laptop beside her, and I'm a lot more worried about the damage she would do if she dropped it on her foot than I am about the impact of the low power radio waves it emits. 
Bill Thompson is an independent journalist and regular commentator on the BBC World Service programme Digital Planet.
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Wi-Fi: Children at risk from 'electronic smog'
::: Revealed - radiation threat from new wireless computer networks ::: Teachers demand inquiry to protect a generation of pupils
By Geoffrey Lean, environment editor
Published: 22 April 2007
Britain's top health protection watchdog is pressing for a formal investigation into the hazards of using wireless communication networks in schools amid mounting concern that they may be damaging children's health, 'The Independent on Sunday' can reveal.
Sir William Stewart, the chairman of the Health Protection Agency, wants pupils to be monitored for ill effects from the networks - known as Wi-Fi - which emit radiation and are being installed in classrooms across the nation.
Sir William - who is a former chief scientific adviser to the Government, and has chaired two official inquiries into the hazards of mobile phones - is adding his weight to growing pressure for a similar examination of Wi-Fi, which some scientists fear could cause cancer and premature senility.
Wi-Fi - described by the Department of Education and Skills as a "magical" system that means computers do not have to be connected to telephone lines - is rapidly being taken up inschools, with estimates that more than half of primary schools - and four-fifths of secondary schools - have installed it .
But several European provincial governments have already taken action to ban, or limit, its use in the classroom, and Stowe School has partially removed it after a teacher became ill.
This week the Professional Association of Teachers, which represents 35,000 staff across the country, will write to Alan Johnson, Secretary of State for Education, to demand an official inquiry. Virtually no studies have been carried out into Wi-Fi's effects on pupils, but it gives off radiation similar to emissions from mobile phones and phone masts.
Recent research has linked radiation from mobiles to cancer and to brain damage. And many studies have found disturbing symptoms in people near masts.
Professor Olle Johansson, of Sweden's prestigious Karolinska Institute, who is deeply concerned about the spread of Wi-Fi, says there are "thousands" of articles in scientific literature demonstrating "adverse health effects". He adds: "Do we not know enough already to say, 'Stop!'?"
For the past 16 months, the provincial government of Salzburg in Austria has been advising schools not to install Wi-Fi, and is considering a ban. Dr Gerd Oberfeld, its head of environmental health and medicine, calls the technology "dangerous".
Sir William - who takes a stronger position on the issue than his agency - was not available for comment yesterday, but two members of an expert group that he chairs on the hazards of radiation spoke of his concern.
Mike Bell, chairman of the Electromagnetic Radiation Research Trust, says that he has been "very supportive of having Wi-Fi examined and doing something about it". And Alasdair Philips, director of Powerwatch, an information service, said that he was pressing for monitoring of the health of pupils exposed to Wi-Fi.
Labour MP Ian Gibson, who was interviewed with Sir William for a forthcoming television programme, last week said that he backed proposals for an inquiry.
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